#165 starting skills and starting spells dynamically checked when character zones

Right now starting skills and spells are one off on character creation. We need to have the ability to add new skills/spells even after char creation so we will have sanity checks in the code to do the processing since DB is not capable of this functionality.

• Also add reload commands for starting skills/spells

additional changes regarding this issue: http://cutpon.com:3000/devn00b/EQ2EMu/commit/51b314ac8711e83d9fc851c020f58a4887dcf25b